“Weeping endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.”
— Psalm 30:5 (NKJV)

Grief is not something we plan for. It arrives suddenly—sometimes violently—and leaves our hearts with cracks we never imagined possible.

Loss takes more than the person, dream, or season we cherished. It takes the version of life we thought we would always know.

In my own journey, I often wondered:
Will I ever feel whole again? Will joy ever return?

For a long time, I lived in the shadow of those questions. Every smile felt forced. Every laugh was followed by guilt.
How I rejoice when my heart still ached?

But slowly, through the gentle leading of God and via apostolic joint. God gently led me to realize something profound.
✨ Joy is not gone forever. It is rediscovered.

💛 The God Who Sits With Us

In the early days of grief, I wanted answers. I prayed hard prayers, asking God “why?”

Instead, I was met with silence.

But over time, I learned that His silence was not absence. His presence was near—in ways words can’t express.

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
— Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

There is something deeply comforting about knowing that we serve a God. He is not only reigns in majesty but also weeps with us in sorrow.

“Jesus wept.”
— John 11:35 (KJV)

That short verse taught me something eternal:
Tears do not show little faith. Instead, they reveal deep love.

🌦️ Learning That Joy and Sorrow Can Coexist

For a long time, I believed joy only returns once grief ended.
But the truth is—grief never truly disappears. Grief changes over time. It never vanish completely. God can transform it into a testimony of His sustaining grace.

What I’ve learned is that joy does not have to wait for grief to be over. Joy and sorrow can walk together.

“To everything there is a season. There is a time to weep and a time to laugh. There is a time to mourn and a time to dance.”
— Ecclesiastes 3:1,4 (KJV)

Rediscovered joy does not erase the past; it honors it.
It allows us to say:
This mattered. This shaped me. This changed me.
And still, by God’s grace, I can live fully again.

🌅 Small Steps Toward Light

My rediscovery of joy didn’t happen in one grand moment of revelation—it came in quiet, holy steps:

🌤️ A sunrise reminding me that new mercies come every morning (Lamentations 3:22–23).
🎵 A song that lifted my spirit when I least expected it.
📖 A word from God’s servants, reminding me of His purpose for me and my children.
💭 A memory that once brought tears, now bringing gratitude.

Each of these moments whispered that joy wasn’t dead—only hidden beneath my pain.
And as I embraced those moments, I realized joy had been waiting patiently for me all along.

🌹 God’s Exchange: Beauty for Ashes

One of the scripture that became my anchor during this journey:

“To bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes. To supply the oil of joy instead of mourning. To give a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”
— Isaiah 61:3 (NIV)

This is not just poetic comfort—it is a divine exchange.
God doesn’t ask us to hide our ashes.
He takes them.
He receives our mourning.
He shoulders our heaviness.

And in return, He gives beauty, joy, and praise.

That is the miracle of rediscovered joy:
💫 We do not create it by our own strength. It is a gift from God.

✨ Joy as Testimony

Rediscovered joy is not a betrayal of the one we lost, or the season that ended.
It is a testimony—a declaration that:

🌿 Life is still worth living.
🌿 God is still faithful.
🌿 Sorrow is not the final word.

“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you. When you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you.”
— Isaiah 43:2 (NIV)

Rediscovered joy tells the world:
I have walked through the fire, but I am not consumed.
I have tasted loss, but I am not defined by it.
I have cried bitter tears, but I have also found sweet laughter again in God almighty.

💖 A Word for You

If you are still walking through grief, let me speak to your heart:

🌸 Be gentle with yourself. Healing is not a race.
🌸 Allow yourself to feel—grief is not something to “get over,” it’s something to walk through with God.
🌸 Do not fear joy when it comes. It does not dishonor your loss; it honors God’s gift of life after loss.

“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
— Psalm 147:3 (NIV)

Grief leave scars. Yet, those scars can become sacred reminders of God’s presence. They tell a story not just of what you endured but also of how God carried you through.

And in that story, joy can live again.

So yes, I have known grief.
But I have also rediscovered joy.
And because of God’s unfailing love—I believe you will too. 💫

🙏 Reflection Prayer

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for being close to me in my seasons of loss.
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

When my heart feels heavy, you remind me that You are near. My spirit is weary. You are the God who sits with me. You weep with me and gently restore me.
“Jesus wept.” — John 11:35 (KJV)

Lord, help me to see that my story doesn’t end in sorrow.
Teach me to trust You in the in-between — where grief and grace meet, where pain and peace coexist.
“Weeping endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.” — Psalm 30:5 (NKJV)

I give You my ashes, my brokenness, and my questions.
Exchange them, Father, for the beauty, joy, and purpose You have promised.
“To bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning.” — Isaiah 61:3 (NIV)

My heart learn to rejoice again — not because everything is perfect, but because You are still good.
“Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.” — Psalm 107:1 (NIV)

Let my life become a testimony of Your healing love and unfailing faithfulness.
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3 (NIV)

Thank You for the gift of rediscovered joy.
“The joy of the Lord is my strength.” — Nehemiah 8:10 (NIV)

In Jesus’ precious name,
Amen.

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